As a non member you can not take her to the celestial kingdom to live with God and get your own worlds to populate with her. People should marry for love, not money. Do you know his work hours, break time during work and where does he take break from work. If you shift his way, be prepared for the social costs of inactivityвplus, if you really believe the doctrine, a crisis of faith. Learn more about the LDS Church. Today, I actually feel like I might literally go insane. If you want him - he is part of a medical school package right now, and likely will be for some time to come.
Just go ahead and ask for the definitions and treat it like learning a new language. She cannot get into the top echelons of heaven without being sealed to a worthy priesthood holder in the temple for time and all eternity. Also, I'm sorry that things didn't work out for you with that guy: I'm sure you will meet someone else that's just as wonderful but treats you better if you haven't yet. This is not to say that I need to be the center of attention all the time, but just that I think all the time spent alone makes it more difficult to connect with each other. It's a heart-wrenching story.
Not the end of the world. We long to have a connection that you don't have time for. Whereas white and black may both sleep in on Sunday and tie their left shoes first, Mos have a set of behavioral norms that are in serious conflict with Nomo lifestyles. While doctors start off with 6 figures right off the bat, they also have 6 figures of debt under their belt. Ignore the busy-bodies who want to condemn your significant other. Her goal is to make you mormon. You've made good points about not bringing up the CES letter or anything that could be called "anti-mormon. But can't he send me a text just once a day or every few days to let me know he's thinking of me. I must admit that this life comes with a lot of surprises.
Sadly, the general consensus of "convert or nope out" sounds like what will end up happening. And you must be honest in your conversation with God about it. Thanks for pointing this stuff out.